Dating Younger Women Tips - How to Get a Girl to Come Back to Your Place

I have a friend named John who is in his early 40s, recently divorced, and trying to jump back into the dating scene. Like a lot of guys who are "back the game" after a long hiatus, John is concerned in dating younger women: fun, sexy women in their 20s and early 30s. Those are the girls John wants to be with. He keeps in good shape. He's a fun, outgoing guy. So why shouldn't he go after the younger women he desires most?

But John as a "sticking point" that he all the time seems to run into when he takes younger women out on dates: he has a hard time conclusion the Deal. He came to me with a request yesterday that I've been asked by many men:

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"What's the best way to invite a girl back to my place?"

Well, the first thing you need to understand is, women have a Fear Of The Unknown. This is why it's so important to project that you are a safe, stable, trustworthy guy. You can perform this by "dropping hints" during the conversation in a strategic way. And when your goal is to bring her home at the end of a date...and she's never been inside your place before... It is natural for her to feel some reluctance.

This is because your place -- your environment -- is Unknown to her.

Her female radar "kicks in," and her mind comes up with reasons Not to go there, such as...

- Your place might be dirty and unsanitary. (Women feel very uncomfortable in that type of environment.)
- You might have some weirdo roommate who is going to creep her out.
- You might have a girlfriend or wife that you didn't tell her about -- and she might show up and start some drama!
- You might live unquestionably far away. When she goes home later, she's going to have a hard time finding her way back to her place.

Those are just some of the things she might be thinking.

Here is my point: you need to Eliminate her concerns, suspicions, and fears and make it Easy for her to think, "sure, going to your place sounds fine."

So how do you make her think this way? You Show her your place, and let her come to be customary with it, Before you take her out on the date! It's unquestionably Super easy to do...

Here is how you play it. When you call her and set up the date, tell her to Meet You outside of your place, so that you can ride in your car together and go to the date location.

(Bar, restaurant, coffee shop, whatever.)

Women all the time agree to this. Because A), they are captivating about where you live. They are nosy! They want to check out the outside of your home/apartment/condo.

(Notice, you didn't say "come over and hang out at my place." You said, "meet me outside my place so that we can ride to the bistro together."

And B), they feel more comfortable riding in your car with you, especially if the date location is a place they are not customary with.

You know how women are with driving -- they'd unquestionably rather not do it...

Ok, now here is how to use this Tactic when dating younger women --

When her car pulls up to your place, go outside -- like you're ready to go on the date -- and then tell her you forgot to do something. You need to go back inside and send an email or make a phone call:

"Hey! How are you...oh my God, I just remembered, I need to send an email (or make a phone call) before we go. It's for my work. Come inside for a minute."

She will agree to this. Naturally, she is captivating to see the Interior of where you live.

So show the way her into your place...

Pour her a glass of wine (or some water, if she doesn't drink), and then you go into the other room and pretend to deal with your phone call or email.

The idea is this: you are letting her get customary with your place. Now it is no longer an unknown environment to her.

While you spend 5 or 10 minutes in the other room, you are leaving her alone to check out your pad.

And trust me, she Will check it out. She'll snoop around a bit, take a look at your pictures, maybe look inside your refrigerator... She'll look for any evidence of a girlfriend (or wife) you didn't mention...

And this means you Must have a clean place. Your bathroom has to be very clean. I'm talking Sterile -- open-heart surgical operation could be performed inside your bathroom! That's how clean it should be.

Why? Because she will probably want to use it. (Scented candles and very plush bath towels will make the right impression on her.)

So, after 5 or 10 minutes, you discontinue up your "business" and you come back into the living room and rejoin her. Now the two of you get in your car and go on your date. That all sounded very simple. But what you just did with her is Huge on a psychological level. Because, at the end of the date, when you propose going back to your place -- to have a glass of wine, watch a movie, or anything other Tactic you use from my book -- she Already Knows your environment.

She already Knows that your home is a comfortable place to go back to, and chill out. It's clean, comfortable, and she already knows you're not some horndog who is going to try to jump on top of her the moment she comes in the door. So you take her out for a nice time, you get her back to your place, and that is when the Magic happens...

Dating Younger Women Tips - How to Get a Girl to Come Back to Your Place

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